TODAY I finally got my copy of Grey, the Fifty Shades Story as told by Christian! Just arrived in Cyprus!
I started reading when I got back home, and my first impressions are very good! I loved to be dragged into Christian's dark world. He's dark and twisted, but hey, this is what is so good about him!
After a bit of reading, I went for my daily jogging routine. The evening sky was downcast, but in a nice, summery way. Not the dark, ominous, ugly downcast of autumn and winter, but downcast in bright melancholy hues.
I very much like the spot where I go jogging. It's kind of dilapidated, though the avenue is new, and there is the great Cineplex on the one side with the football stadium on the other. Still, many buildings are dilapidated, while unpleasant rows of wrought iron extend as far as the eye can see. I find it a mess, in a poetic sense.
I will review Grey for The Lipstick Papers soon! xxx
Monday, June 29, 2015
Sunday, June 28, 2015
THE LIPSTICK PAPERS BOOK REVIEW
HELLO and welcome to The Lipstick Papers Book Review! Today we have An Angel a Day, by Margaret Neylon!
This book is "the daily magic and inspiration of angels", as the subtitle says! It's set out like a diary, with some very nice advice for each day, together with a suggestion connecting you to the angel world. There is a diary entry for a leap year too, 29th February!
I really like this book! It's comforting, clever and easy to use. I bought it about twelve years ago, and I never tire of it.
Apart from advice, some days feature recipes -- angel cake, angel hair pasta, gingerbread angels.
What's the angel advice for today, 28 June? Here it is: "... look out for a feather in an unusual place. Carry it with you in your wallet or purse. Whenever you see it, remember your angels are always close by, helping you to iron out problems in the most loving way".
It may not be true, but it is at least comforting. If you are into angels, this book is definitely for you! xxx
This book is "the daily magic and inspiration of angels", as the subtitle says! It's set out like a diary, with some very nice advice for each day, together with a suggestion connecting you to the angel world. There is a diary entry for a leap year too, 29th February!
I really like this book! It's comforting, clever and easy to use. I bought it about twelve years ago, and I never tire of it.
Apart from advice, some days feature recipes -- angel cake, angel hair pasta, gingerbread angels.
What's the angel advice for today, 28 June? Here it is: "... look out for a feather in an unusual place. Carry it with you in your wallet or purse. Whenever you see it, remember your angels are always close by, helping you to iron out problems in the most loving way".
It may not be true, but it is at least comforting. If you are into angels, this book is definitely for you! xxx
Saturday, June 27, 2015
CHARLES DICKENS, FIFTY SHADES, FAVORITE SCENES
MY FAVORITE passage from literature is from Great Expectations, and it is one beautiful moment towards the end of the novel! It's where the protagonist, Pip, explains to us how he came to realize his mistakes, especially that he had done his friend Herbert a great injustice by always supposing him to be inept, "until", Pip says, "I was one day enlightened by the reflection, that perhaps the inaptitude had never been in him at all, but had been in me".
In Great Expectations, Pip loses his character when he gains a fortune; he gains back his character when, poor and hunted, he chooses [SPOILER] to risk everything to help Magwitch, who had been his benefactor. Great Expectations is a story of a great redemption, and one of the masterpieces of world literature.
For me, the novel also shows, perhaps more than any other novel, Dickens's mastery of the language. You need to read the whole paragraph I am quoting above, but the passage is one where the rhythm of the words precisely mirrors the feelings and voice of the protagonist. It is a perfect blend of form and content, the "what" and the "how". As the language slows and calms down, so we feel Pip calm down: he has reached the end of his journey towards character and integrity.
Dickens's is the master's touch! You feel that the artist is, at that point in his fiction, in complete control of his medium; that he is with words like Leonardo Da Vinci and Raphael were with oil paint.
What is my second favorite scene from literature? I think it is the interview between Christian and Anastasia in Fifty Shades of Grey, or maybe their meeting at Clayton's!
See you all tomorrow evening for The Lipstick Papers Book Review xxx
In Great Expectations, Pip loses his character when he gains a fortune; he gains back his character when, poor and hunted, he chooses [SPOILER] to risk everything to help Magwitch, who had been his benefactor. Great Expectations is a story of a great redemption, and one of the masterpieces of world literature.
For me, the novel also shows, perhaps more than any other novel, Dickens's mastery of the language. You need to read the whole paragraph I am quoting above, but the passage is one where the rhythm of the words precisely mirrors the feelings and voice of the protagonist. It is a perfect blend of form and content, the "what" and the "how". As the language slows and calms down, so we feel Pip calm down: he has reached the end of his journey towards character and integrity.
Dickens's is the master's touch! You feel that the artist is, at that point in his fiction, in complete control of his medium; that he is with words like Leonardo Da Vinci and Raphael were with oil paint.
What is my second favorite scene from literature? I think it is the interview between Christian and Anastasia in Fifty Shades of Grey, or maybe their meeting at Clayton's!
See you all tomorrow evening for The Lipstick Papers Book Review xxx
Wednesday, June 24, 2015
WARDROBE MALFUNCTION AND A JAZZY AFTERNOON
LET ME tell you about my afternoon, which was full of adventure!
First, I went for a coffee with a special friend! The clutch I am holding is her gift, and she also very kindly took these lovely pics.
My friend had been to the Robbie Williams concert in Athens, and told me that he was amazing. I love Robbie too, so I was naturally very interested. Apparently, there were 30,000 thousand people!!!
The second adventure was not so good! It all had to do with a wardrobe malfunction. After coffee, I was heading for the college graduation (the college where I teach). I thought I had been very clever, and wore trainers downtown, keeping a pair of sandal heels in the car. I put on the heels as soon as I arrived at the graduation venue (a cool reception venue up on a hill).
However, as I walked towards the entrance, both my heels gave way! The front of both shoes went off! Can you believe this??????? I had to walk barefoot about 100 meters back to the car. AND there were shards of broken glass all the way!
Please do not think that the shoes were a cheap pair or that I had worn them many times. I had bought them about three years ago, from a medium price shop, but I had worn them only three times. Yes! ONLY three times!
Luckily, I managed to get to the car without injuring or cutting my feet. I drove back home, freshened up, put on a pair of good heels, and went to the graduation.
The graduation ceremony was lovely, I saw colleagues and friends, and amazing fashion, including a peach, flouncy skirt, a cream, tight toilette, and a dark blue, tight dress.
There was a band singing, an amazing jazz band called Mood Indigo!
What a fantastic afternoon! I hope yours was too ;-)
P.S. The horrid shoes were from the (Greek, I think) chain Migato. Neither cheap, nor expensive, about average priced, I would say, but horrid. Don't buy!
First, I went for a coffee with a special friend! The clutch I am holding is her gift, and she also very kindly took these lovely pics.
My friend had been to the Robbie Williams concert in Athens, and told me that he was amazing. I love Robbie too, so I was naturally very interested. Apparently, there were 30,000 thousand people!!!
The second adventure was not so good! It all had to do with a wardrobe malfunction. After coffee, I was heading for the college graduation (the college where I teach). I thought I had been very clever, and wore trainers downtown, keeping a pair of sandal heels in the car. I put on the heels as soon as I arrived at the graduation venue (a cool reception venue up on a hill).
However, as I walked towards the entrance, both my heels gave way! The front of both shoes went off! Can you believe this??????? I had to walk barefoot about 100 meters back to the car. AND there were shards of broken glass all the way!
Please do not think that the shoes were a cheap pair or that I had worn them many times. I had bought them about three years ago, from a medium price shop, but I had worn them only three times. Yes! ONLY three times!
Luckily, I managed to get to the car without injuring or cutting my feet. I drove back home, freshened up, put on a pair of good heels, and went to the graduation.
The graduation ceremony was lovely, I saw colleagues and friends, and amazing fashion, including a peach, flouncy skirt, a cream, tight toilette, and a dark blue, tight dress.
There was a band singing, an amazing jazz band called Mood Indigo!
What a fantastic afternoon! I hope yours was too ;-)
P.S. The horrid shoes were from the (Greek, I think) chain Migato. Neither cheap, nor expensive, about average priced, I would say, but horrid. Don't buy!
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
RE-LEARNING THE CRAFT
IT'S NOT OFTEN that you have the opportunity to picture yourself with a classic star! Here I am posing with an old sewing machine!
The sewing machine is inextricably intertwined with women's history. Though seamstresses were usually badly paid, and worked in bad conditions, seamstressing and sewing have always been among the ways for women to make a living. What I wouldn't give to know how to cut and sew!
In the Olympian religion, spinning, weaving and the thread were the province of the Goddess Athene. Athene the weaver was called Εργάνη Αθηνά (Ergane Athena), the Athene who protected weavers, crafts and craftsmen/women.
In the Christian religion, tradition has it that the beautiful scarlet robe Christ wore had been woven with special care by his mother, the Virgin Mary herself! For this reason the robe was excessively beautiful, and the Roman soldiers threw a dice upon it. Saint Marcellus, who won, was converted to Christianity, having experienced visions and intense emotions after wearing the robe.
The thread of cloth goes a long way back, to religion, history and sacred traditions. I learnt sewing at school but I have forgotten everything about it. Now I study and write about sewing academically. However, re-learning the craft is in my "to-do" list!
Have a good evening and be well! xxx
The sewing machine is inextricably intertwined with women's history. Though seamstresses were usually badly paid, and worked in bad conditions, seamstressing and sewing have always been among the ways for women to make a living. What I wouldn't give to know how to cut and sew!
In the Olympian religion, spinning, weaving and the thread were the province of the Goddess Athene. Athene the weaver was called Εργάνη Αθηνά (Ergane Athena), the Athene who protected weavers, crafts and craftsmen/women.
In the Christian religion, tradition has it that the beautiful scarlet robe Christ wore had been woven with special care by his mother, the Virgin Mary herself! For this reason the robe was excessively beautiful, and the Roman soldiers threw a dice upon it. Saint Marcellus, who won, was converted to Christianity, having experienced visions and intense emotions after wearing the robe.
The thread of cloth goes a long way back, to religion, history and sacred traditions. I learnt sewing at school but I have forgotten everything about it. Now I study and write about sewing academically. However, re-learning the craft is in my "to-do" list!
Have a good evening and be well! xxx
Sunday, June 21, 2015
THE LIPSTICK PAPERS BOOK REVIEW
HELLO and welcome to The Lipstick Papers Book Review! Tonight we have Shadow of the Moon, a romance novel by M.M. Kaye!
I read this book years ago, and enjoyed it very much. It is set in the Victorian era, and tells a long and romantic story between Alex Randall, a young English officer in India and Winter de Ballesteros, the young woman who later becomes his superior's wife. The superior is, of course, a proper villain, while Alex is not only very good-looking but also everything which is heroic, noble and good. There is a lot of adventure, danger and romantic deeds, before the happy end!
Shadow of the Moon was first published in 1957 -- my own edition is quite old as you can see in the pic; it's faded and turning yellow. It's a book of the 20th century looking back at the Victorian era, which it presents vividly and quite accurately, I think. Alex is a progressive thinker, insisting that it is better to follow common sense rather than good manners and Victorian propriety/ prudishness.
There are two faults in this book. The first has to do with protagonist Alex Randall. Though his character is drawn very well, and is interesting and attractive, sometimes he is also too heroic. There is nothing he cannot do, and nothing he does not excel at. I would have preferred him a bit flawed. The second problem is that the book is a conventional take on imperialism, arguing that there is "good" and "bad" imperialism. Alex supports a benign, "good", imperialism, while his superior is everything which is evil about it.
Coming from a postcolonial country myself, I am not sure I am convinced by this argument. At any rate, it's something which does not ring well to 21st century ears.
Other than this, Shadow of the Moon is a fantastic romantic adventure and I totally recommend!
Have a good night, always with beauty and a book! xxx
I read this book years ago, and enjoyed it very much. It is set in the Victorian era, and tells a long and romantic story between Alex Randall, a young English officer in India and Winter de Ballesteros, the young woman who later becomes his superior's wife. The superior is, of course, a proper villain, while Alex is not only very good-looking but also everything which is heroic, noble and good. There is a lot of adventure, danger and romantic deeds, before the happy end!
Shadow of the Moon was first published in 1957 -- my own edition is quite old as you can see in the pic; it's faded and turning yellow. It's a book of the 20th century looking back at the Victorian era, which it presents vividly and quite accurately, I think. Alex is a progressive thinker, insisting that it is better to follow common sense rather than good manners and Victorian propriety/ prudishness.
There are two faults in this book. The first has to do with protagonist Alex Randall. Though his character is drawn very well, and is interesting and attractive, sometimes he is also too heroic. There is nothing he cannot do, and nothing he does not excel at. I would have preferred him a bit flawed. The second problem is that the book is a conventional take on imperialism, arguing that there is "good" and "bad" imperialism. Alex supports a benign, "good", imperialism, while his superior is everything which is evil about it.
Coming from a postcolonial country myself, I am not sure I am convinced by this argument. At any rate, it's something which does not ring well to 21st century ears.
Other than this, Shadow of the Moon is a fantastic romantic adventure and I totally recommend!
Have a good night, always with beauty and a book! xxx
Friday, June 19, 2015
FASHION SHOW AND FASHION CREATIONS
I WENT, the other day, to see the fashion show and fashion creations of Fashion students from the college where I teach! This was at the Apothikes (Αποθήκες, Warehouses) art and cultural space in my hometown. I had a great time, saw art and met interesting people!
The exhibition featured outfits from a wedding dress to grunge, and sample interior spaces from the Interior Design students!
I had a brilliant time, and was particularly impressed with an art work made entirely from cloth by Cypriot artist Mr Renos. Here it is in the picture below:
Isn't it amazing? One of the symbols on the painting was adopted by Apothikes as their own logo.
Apothikes is in a renovated building in the historic part of the old town, and very beautiful it is too. Have a look at their website:
http://ww.loveapothikes.com/home.htm
More on sewing, fashion and art in a later post! xxx
The exhibition featured outfits from a wedding dress to grunge, and sample interior spaces from the Interior Design students!
I had a brilliant time, and was particularly impressed with an art work made entirely from cloth by Cypriot artist Mr Renos. Here it is in the picture below:
Isn't it amazing? One of the symbols on the painting was adopted by Apothikes as their own logo.
Apothikes is in a renovated building in the historic part of the old town, and very beautiful it is too. Have a look at their website:
http://ww.loveapothikes.com/home.htm
More on sewing, fashion and art in a later post! xxx
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
ADDICTION TO HAPPY ENDINGS
IN Mary Elizabeth Braddon's The Doctor's Wife, George, the protagonist Isabel's husband is beyond the pale early in the book -- that is, the moment he insists that Isabel is married in a plain brown dress instead of a beautiful wedding dress!!! Isabel is poor, so George, who is better off, will buy her the wedding clothes. He comes up with a pitiable brown dress, telling her that it is the best wedding dress ever since, "you can wear it afterwards as an ordinary dress".
This is the first cloud in a marriage which is not good for Isabel at all. George is the most unromantic character imaginable -- no wonder that Isabel eventually falls in love with a beautiful and gallant young man, who understands her need for romance and beauty, and is willing to die for her.
If you are looking for a happy ending, The Doctor's Wife is not for you. :-( Given my addiction to happy endings, I wonder why i like it so much. Maybe because it is a book with character, a book which is odd yet attractive.
Central to The Doctor's Wife is the idea that beauty, romance, fashion and beautiful things are not superficial or unnecessary, but can make life better and lovelier.
Here I am at my friend's boutique (Pearls and Shells) having a taste of fashion! I am sure you probably know by now that I am crazy about fashion and outfits and that, the only thing which prevents me from becoming a complete fashion freak is lack of funds.
Still, being dressed nicely is not only a matter of money. Because of the need to economize, I set priorities, and buy pieces which I love and which are of good quality.
Have a good afternoon and be well! xxx
This is the first cloud in a marriage which is not good for Isabel at all. George is the most unromantic character imaginable -- no wonder that Isabel eventually falls in love with a beautiful and gallant young man, who understands her need for romance and beauty, and is willing to die for her.
If you are looking for a happy ending, The Doctor's Wife is not for you. :-( Given my addiction to happy endings, I wonder why i like it so much. Maybe because it is a book with character, a book which is odd yet attractive.
Central to The Doctor's Wife is the idea that beauty, romance, fashion and beautiful things are not superficial or unnecessary, but can make life better and lovelier.
Here I am at my friend's boutique (Pearls and Shells) having a taste of fashion! I am sure you probably know by now that I am crazy about fashion and outfits and that, the only thing which prevents me from becoming a complete fashion freak is lack of funds.
Still, being dressed nicely is not only a matter of money. Because of the need to economize, I set priorities, and buy pieces which I love and which are of good quality.
Have a good afternoon and be well! xxx
Tuesday, June 16, 2015
BLONDE
SUMMER is here, which means that I change the shower curtain from the plain white to the Marilyn Monroe! The Marilyn Monroe curtain was a gift from a special friend; plus, all my shower curtains at home are fraught with meaning. The white is for the dark winter months, because the color reminds me of the light I miss so much. The sky blue is for spring, while in the summer, where we have hours and hours of golden light, I put the curtain with Marilyn, in shades of grey!
Marilyn Monroe is, for me, a figure of mystery and fascination: like the Princess Diana, a hugely talented and tragic woman, a woman who left this world too early, who had much more to give, and deserved much more. I guess both women prove that money, power and fame cannot buy happiness. If there is a lesson to be learnt, it is, I suppose, that happiness is a great and rare gift and can be found only in the so-called "small" things.
I have two books about Marilyn -- one it is Blonde, Marilyn's biography by Joyce Carol Oates (good, I'm sure, but too depressing to read) and another book with extracts from Marilyn's poems and letters. I will review the latter at some later point for The Lipstick Papers!
Here is a sketch I once made of Marilyn, adding reading glasses and a different hairstyle. Some people who see it recognize Marilyn, others think it is myself, i.e. that it is a self-portrait.
This doesn't say much for my talent for taking likenesses: however, it is certainly one of the best compliments I have ever heard! ;-)
Have a good afternoon and be well! xxx
Marilyn Monroe is, for me, a figure of mystery and fascination: like the Princess Diana, a hugely talented and tragic woman, a woman who left this world too early, who had much more to give, and deserved much more. I guess both women prove that money, power and fame cannot buy happiness. If there is a lesson to be learnt, it is, I suppose, that happiness is a great and rare gift and can be found only in the so-called "small" things.
I have two books about Marilyn -- one it is Blonde, Marilyn's biography by Joyce Carol Oates (good, I'm sure, but too depressing to read) and another book with extracts from Marilyn's poems and letters. I will review the latter at some later point for The Lipstick Papers!
Here is a sketch I once made of Marilyn, adding reading glasses and a different hairstyle. Some people who see it recognize Marilyn, others think it is myself, i.e. that it is a self-portrait.
This doesn't say much for my talent for taking likenesses: however, it is certainly one of the best compliments I have ever heard! ;-)
Have a good afternoon and be well! xxx
Sunday, June 14, 2015
THE LIPSTICK PAPERS BOOK REVIEW
HELLO and welcome to The Lipstick Papers Book Review! Tonight we got a pamphlet by Charles Baudelaire, published in 1860 and called Eloge du Maquillage! This is French and means "in defense of makeup".
In this little essay, the famous poet supports makeup and cosmetics, saying that, like civilization, they improve nature and are therefore valuable and good! This was a brave statement in the 19th century, which was quite anti-makeup. It was only towards the end of the century that makeup started to be considered acceptable, and even then it had to be discreet. Women were expected to be beautiful, but if they did anything to enhance that beauty they were condemned.
Baudelaire's pamphlet states clearly that nature can sometimes be unjust on the skin -- makeup is there to help! He also defends fashion saying that it forms part of the search for the ideal and the charming.
The only negative thing with Elogu du Maquillage, is that it continues to see the woman as an object to be stared at: though it does not deny women personality and intelligence, it says that it is their business to look beautiful.
If you have been reading this blog for a while, you will know that feminism's answer here is that, 1) women are subjects, not objects, 2) they can be beautiful and love their own beauty too, i.e. they can be beautiful because they like and choose to, and, 3) there are many kinds of beauty, not just one.
I have this pamphlet in Greek, from the publishing house Agra (Άγρα), which has done a lot to bring international research to the Greek-speaking public. Their translations are excellent. Baudelaire's work belongs to their pamphlet series, (which also includes Virginia Woolf's Letter to a Young Poet). In Greek the title for Baudelaire is Εγκώμιο του Μακιγιάζ.
Have a good night, always with beauty and a book! xxx
In this little essay, the famous poet supports makeup and cosmetics, saying that, like civilization, they improve nature and are therefore valuable and good! This was a brave statement in the 19th century, which was quite anti-makeup. It was only towards the end of the century that makeup started to be considered acceptable, and even then it had to be discreet. Women were expected to be beautiful, but if they did anything to enhance that beauty they were condemned.
Baudelaire's pamphlet states clearly that nature can sometimes be unjust on the skin -- makeup is there to help! He also defends fashion saying that it forms part of the search for the ideal and the charming.
The only negative thing with Elogu du Maquillage, is that it continues to see the woman as an object to be stared at: though it does not deny women personality and intelligence, it says that it is their business to look beautiful.
If you have been reading this blog for a while, you will know that feminism's answer here is that, 1) women are subjects, not objects, 2) they can be beautiful and love their own beauty too, i.e. they can be beautiful because they like and choose to, and, 3) there are many kinds of beauty, not just one.
I have this pamphlet in Greek, from the publishing house Agra (Άγρα), which has done a lot to bring international research to the Greek-speaking public. Their translations are excellent. Baudelaire's work belongs to their pamphlet series, (which also includes Virginia Woolf's Letter to a Young Poet). In Greek the title for Baudelaire is Εγκώμιο του Μακιγιάζ.
Have a good night, always with beauty and a book! xxx
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